Also, from the con this weekend, and a lovely person keeping tumblr updated with everything:
"misha said destiel is canon
misha said the writers are aware it’s canon
misha confirmed jeremy carver was gonna resolve cas and dean’s relationship later in the season
misha said just cause it’s unspoken doesn’t mean it’s not real
misha also said it’s mutual love, not unrequited"
"At the meet n greet, after the Carver comment that Misha made, we all must’ve made astonished faces because Misha impatiently said, I think the love there is made pretty clear.
And I said, Sure, on Cas’s part, its well established that he loves Dean, but i don’t think it is on Dean’s side. (yes, arguing just to get him to elaborate, I’m bad)
And he sorta rolled his eyes and said, C’mon, in the first few episodes, Dean’s running around Purgatory, chopping off heads, Where’s the angel, where’s the angel, you know, the guy I’m in love with?
Us: I DON’T REMEMBER DEAN SAYING THAT!!
Misha: He might as well have. You know, we know what it is, what’s going on. We don’t talk about it. The actors don’t, Jensen and I don’t. But we’re all perfectly aware of how the relationship is, the writers are completely aware of how it’s being written. It may be unspoken but that doesn’t mean it’s not there or not true.
Yes, at the Meet n Greet, Misha completely confirmed that Dean and Cas are in a love relationship. He did not specify romantic or sexual, but then again… At that point, he didn’t need to."
So that. Misha's own words. And then this:
lol They're adorable and silly. I wonder what their wives think half the time when they're pulling stunts like this. ^_^
If that doesn't warm the cockles of your heart, nothing will, because you have no soul.
Also, further proof why our fandom is better than others:
I rest my case.